What is Join Rise Be?
On the surface, we are a state funded peer-run initiative built by young people for young people based out of New Britain, Connecticut. We share our lived experience and create spaces for others to feel comfortable to do the same, in hope to influence positive change.
Our Mission is to share our perspective to influence change at the local, regional, and state levels. We connect with our peers and community partners to reduce discrimination against young people and we cultivate the belief that recovery is possible and we all have the capacity to achieve success.
What is Recovery?
Recovery is rising above circumstance and living a life of self-defined purpose. It is a process that is achieved through focused determination and patience. When recovery is achieved, it is recognized within the person as a shift from the inability to overcome challenges into a manageable state of self-awareness where growth is attainable.
You may think of recovery differently. That’s wonderful! We welcome the dialogue to gain a shared understanding of what it means to navigate personally devastating circumstances.
Meet Our Team!
Program Manager: Patricia Young
Patricia’s path to Join Rise Be has been a circuitous one to say the least! After getting a B.A. in Psychology from CCSU, owning a business and having a history of inconsistent career paths, an opportunity to be a live-in Caregiver for Survivors of sex trafficking in Miami presented itself. Since overcoming is in her DNA and she lives to fight for others, saying yes was a no brainer. After an enlightening and transformative 3-months of closely caring for those who suffered severe cumulative trauma in the sex trade, it was impossible for Patricia to go back to business as usual. It was time to step into a career that was more congruent with the person she was evolving into. Becoming the Program Manager for Join Rise Be is exactly that.
Depression, anxiety, trauma and being grossly misunderstood, all once served as potentially life-threatening ailments for as long as Patricia can remember. Upon accepting these facets of life as part of the package, she had an epiphany which led to massive growth in her recovery and beyond. Patricia discovered an untapped power from leaning into fear and began viewing each hardship or challenge in life as a weak powerless opponent who can and will be defeated. She now embraces life’s challenges and disappointments with confidence, vigor and a militant pursuit for the best possible outcome!
Patricia is honored and excited to join Advocacy Unlimited, with aspirations of being able to help young adults cultivate their own fighter within!
Social Media and Outreach Coordinator: Marco Stanley
Marco is an empathetic and intuitive artist who was born and partially raised in Meriden, Connecticut. In the span of a few years, he moved from 3 different homes until his mother made the decision to give up guardianship. Despite traumatic childhood struggles, it wasn’t until he was in high school when he first discovered his fascination for the human psyche. For as long as he can remember, Marco has always wanted to make others feel welcome, happy, and loved. Exploring what it means to be conscious became a priority after issues surrounding abandonment and lack of self-worth became prevalent. Multiple hospitalizations and other hardships showed him the importance of time and energy. His purpose became very clear: Do what you love and inspire others to do the same.
Working as a warmline operator goes hand in hand with his abstract way of thinking. He believes in pursuing a self-defined life around the many forms of creation. From photography to graphic design to poetry to music, he takes on many hats in life. With that being said, when he’s not working at the Join Rise Be headquarters, he’s creating art and publishing it while simultaneously sharing knowledge and advocating for topics such as love, substance abuse, healing, abandonment, mindfulness and so on.
Young Adult Peer Leadership Coordinator: Skyler Rivera
Skyler has lived in West Hartford all his life. In 2011 he suffered his first anxiety/panic attack. After that he began living in fear of the next attack while simultaneously battling depression. His school attendance started to plummet his senior year, which put him in a position to possibly not graduate. The thought of not being able to graduate with his best friend, drove him to overcome his fears through determination and he soon focused all of his energy on graduating, which he did in 2012.
In the coming years he tried his hand in community college and found it to not be for him. Over the past 8 years Skyler went through the IOP program at the Institute of Living once a year to help him “reboot” when he sensed the signs of anxiety and depression resurfacing. It was during this time that Skyler discovered the emerging leader within himself! As he took on leadership roles in the various groups he was in, he discovered an ambition to change the mental health system and to help others so they would not have to suffer like he so often did.
His love for the Philadelphia Eagles, Basketball, baseball, and anime (One Piece, Attack On titan, and many others) keep him going through tough times. Working on the Join Rise Be team is fulfilling Skyler’s passion in making a difference.
Torry Bernard started working at JRB in 2015 where she helped create the Young Adult Warmline knowing that she wanted to give other young people support and a place where they can feel safe to be themselves and talk about their struggles without judgement. She grew up in the foster care system as a child and is a survivor of Human Trafficking. Torry shares her story and experiences with others in hope that she can be a support to young people who may feel voiceless. Torry is a Recovery Support Specialist and also a certified Intentional Peer Support trainer. Torry is now the Administrative Assistant for Advocacy Unlimited, and is still part of JRB by being the Coordinator of their events.
Join Rise Be will always have a special place in her heart because she was able to grow and learn while doing what she is passionate about.
Johnathan Mckenzie August 9, 1997 – November 17, 2019
Johnathan McKenzie joined the Advocacy Unlimited family just over a year ago – yet, it felt like he was a brother for lifetimes.
Beginning at an early age, Johnathan’s interest in neuropsychology, philosophy, and socioeconomics stemmed from his personal journey through New York and Connecticut’s psychiatric inpatient and outpatient systems. Upon discovering some of the fundamental flaws that lead to many of our society’s struggles, Johnathan began his pursuit of advocacy while inpatient at Connecticut Valley Hospital.
Alarmed by the inhumane treatment and the disregard of client rights, he transitioned into the community with the support of Char’Dornne and Connecticut Legal Rights Project. With his newfound freedom, Johnathan began participating in civil protests, mental health awareness campaigns, and LGBTQ pride events.
This led to a growing commitment to change the conditions of society to ensure all people have the opportunity to achieve their dreams free from institutional and systemic discrimination.
Despite experiencing the harshest of circumstances, Johnathan believed in the goodness of people. He was a leader who inspired all those who witnessed his grace, dignity, and charisma. His devotion and passion for protecting civil and individual rights was seen in so many ways.
Through his leadership, the Danbury NAACP Youth and College Division was founded in 2016. He then transitioned to the role of Community Coordinator with the Waterbury chapter where he was recognized this year in Detroit, Michigan for his outstanding efforts and involvement with the NAACP.
While volunteering, Johnathan became more involved with local efforts to reform the mental health service system. He joined the Connecticut Young Adult Services Statewide Advisory Board, and subsequently joined the Join Rise Be team at Advocacy Unlimited as a Training Coordinator and Young Adult Warmline Operator.
As a member of the JRB team, he collaborated directly with the Department of Mental Health of Addiction Services Young Adult Services division. Working alongside his peers to strengthen the voice of young adults and improve the partnerships between those engaged in YAS programming and the staff that work with them.
What a year it has been for Johnathan – a rising star and an agent of change. Along with receiving the youth award through the NAACP, Johnathan was recognized in Torrington as the 2019 recipient of the Fredrick “Ricky” Lagassie III award this past May and as the recipient of the Emerging Adult Voice Award through Keep the Promise Coalition for his testimony at the Appropriations Committee of the Connecticut Legislature.
Beyond the words that describe his achievements – Johnathan was passionate about running, martial arts, meditation, writing, and music. Johnathan is remembered as a quirky, dancing, improving, bowtie wearing, awesome hat rocking, roller blading, martial art doing, music making, writing, kareoking, advocating, brilliance that lit every space he entered with pure heart and presence.
Johnathan’s presence was an embodiment of love, expression, kindness, freedom, and connection.
Johnathan was love, the rarest and most pure love. His expression of kindness gave permission to all people to simply be free just as they were – nothing more was needed. He was committed to connection – wanting people to feel a sense of belonging.
For those of us lucky enough to have worked with Johnathan will remember him sitting in the office for hours, surrounded by paper placed strategically around him, candles lit and music blasting. He was changing the world each moment and breath he took.
Each letter he wrote and word he spoke was with a conviction that came from his soul. He would spend hours talking about the purpose of life, the purpose of our being, and always asking how we can define happiness. When asked, he would define happy as, “sitting right here doing all the things I love with the people I care about.”
Well, Johnathan, you changed the world for many people. Through your love, expression, kindness, freedom, and connection – those who knew are better people because of your presence.
Despite the pain, you found your way through the darkness and you lit a flame that will forever burn in the hearts of us all. You belonged right here, all along. You will never be forgotten.
No excellent soul is exempt from a mixture of madness – Aristotle